Civilization is the progress toward a society of privacy. The savage's whole existence is public, ruled by the laws of his tribe. Civilization is the process of setting man free from men. ~ Ayn Rand
Privacy is practically nonexistent in college. Even if you're fortunate enough to not have a roommate, there are always people in the halls, people running in and out of your dorm room, and people up at all hours of the night. Alone time is rare, but still very necessary.
While there are things that are easy to be honest about when managing your diabetes, certain tasks require a great amount of privacy. For example, I don't feel comfortable doing a site change in front of my roommates. At home I was used to going into the bathroom and changing my site. Now in college though, I share a bathroom with four other girls and this is no longer as simple as it used to be.
As I'm almost finished with the first semester of freshman year, I've been able to get a better schedule down and know when my roommates will either not be in the room or when the bathroom is usually available. I still run into my fair share of uncomfortable moments, either when a suit-mate walks into the bathroom puzzled by the syringe I'm holding in my hand, or when one of my roommates comes back with a group of friends and my old inset has awkwardly stuck itself to my roomie's desk.
I've found total honesty to be the best way when dealing with situations like these. It can be very difficult, no doubt, especially when I'm startled myself by someone's unexpected entrance. But there's no reason to feel embarrassed about what I'm doing and helping others understand life with diabetes can only be a good thing.
I recently learned about Evgeny Morozov through his book The Net Delusion. For those of you who have not read it, the book essentially critiques the Internet and mega search engines which allow personal information to be at anyone's disposal. Morozov reflects on the Iranian protests in 2009, which at the time were said to be greatly aided by the online socializing network Twitter. Morozov downplays Twitter's role however, and instead highlights the infringement on basic privacies that an online database of personal information creates. Even if you seldom post personal information online, you can still exist in the online world. In some ways, the social environment college creates is similar to the network of information found online. When there are always other students around 24/7, your personal world unknown in high school can be exposed when others desire. This is intimidating for many. Yet, isn't learning about other's differences a major benefit of college itself? While everyone deserves an appropriate amount of individual space, opening up can be a valuable learning experience for many. The vast amount of knowledge available online was not open to the public before the Internet was created, and similarly, the wealth of college diversity is not available to most until the college years themselves.
Establishing a healthy balance between being open about personal matters and maintaining a proper level of privacy is important for everyone; those managing an illness like diabetes, and those who are not.